Ever since we got married, Bryce and I have tried to make weekly date nights a reality. With each child that’s come to our family, that’s gotten progressively harder. Finding babysitters can be a chore, paying babysitters can be a bother, and often we’re just tired from a busy week and not eager to go out and do something. We’d fallen into the habit of just watching a movie at home and maybe getting take-out from someplace local. This year, we decided that we wanted to make date night a little more special. We decided that we would really try to do something fun together one night a week, even if we didn’t leave home. To make sure it happened, we decided to alternate and take turns being in charge of date night every other week. I have to say, it’s been great so far! Just knowing that we’re going to be doing something special and that the other person is planning and thinking of ideas is wonderful.
Here are some of the things we’ve done so far at home for our date nights: a cheese tasting (complete with a selection of fine cheeses, sliced pears, and sparkling cider), a yoga night (with scented candles, a relaxing yoga DVD workout, and a documentary on yoga), a curry making night (this has turned out to be one of our favorite recipes to make now), a mystery themed night (we played the game MindTrap, ate a treat called Mystery Dessert, and watched a mystery movie), and a night of myths (we watched a couple episodes of the show MythBusters and played a board game called Urban Legends). You’d be surprised who was in charge of those. For instance, I hosted the cheese tasting and Bryce planned the yoga night! There have been other nights when we’ve actually gone out and that’s great, too. It’s nice to have a change of scenery every once in a while.
It has been so much fun! And I am proud of us for making it happen each week, even when we’re tired or sick. One week, I was really sick with a cold, so my date night plan was to simply watch some TED talks (really interesting lectures that you can watch online). But it was still something.
Here’s to 10 more months of date nights!